Episode 42: Building Authentic Connections with Priscilla Schelp

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Ron opens the episode and asks Priscilla to introduce herself.

• Priscilla proceeds to introduce herself, noting that her main focus right now is on her startup and finishing her PhD.
• Michelle asks her why she started her company, after which she explains her reasoning behind her startup.
• Her goal is to help others build authentic connections and broaden their networks by finding new members for private interest groups

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Ron asks why she thinks having authentic connections is so important.

• Priscilla asks in return what does having a non-authentic connection give you, to which Ron gives a response.
• She continues by giving examples as to why we, as humans, need authentic connection.
• She notes that it all starts by having an authentic connection with yourself, otherwise you’ll be looking for someone else to fill those gaps.

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Michelle asks how she recognizes authentic connections.

• She says there are two things she looks at – first is whether you are codependent on that person for something, and the second is a gut feeling.
• Priscilla adds that gut feelings can be wrong, but they will be trained over time.
• Ron asks how we can help ourselves or others when we did not listen to that gut feeling.
• She responds by saying the first step is to forgive yourself, recognizing that perfection is impossible, and then to learn from your mistakes.

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Michelle follows up by asking for an example of when an authentic connection made a difference for her.

• Priscilla relays the story about her and her mentor’s relationship over the years.
• She notes that for authentic connections to exist, you should not be trying to get something from that person.
• She continues by explaining what to look for over the long term to determine whether the relationship is truly authentic or not.

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Ron then asks Priscilla to discuss more about the fear of rejection and how she manages it.

• She begins by calling attention to fear of rejection is partially a rejection of ourselves.
• Priscilla then continues by describing how to shift your mentality so you will not be dependent on others’ opinions of yourself.
• She also notes how this mindset can help when it comes to rejection from other people.
• Michelle asks how she prevents the stories that others’ might be creating from affecting her.
• Priscilla gives a number of ways how to ignore those stories, or what other stories you can tell yourself, and other steps we can take to keep those stories from affecting us.
• Ron describes how he deals with his fears and shaping the stories that he tells himself, and how he creates other people as well.

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Priscilla then asks Ron and Michelle what was their journey moving from a big company to starting Macklin Connection.

• Michelle gives her story of how she moved toward more philanthropic opportunities, and found how she wanted to learn and teach others how to lead with compassion.
• Ron then relates his story of how the old version of leadership never worked for him and how he always felt it was inauthentic.
• He continues to detail how developing authentic relationships helps people and teams perform better.

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Priscilla finishes by asking what Ron and Michelle are aiming to leave behind.

• Michelle details how she wants to build something that is going to continue to shift our human nature a long time from now.
• Ron describes his goals for the very long term and how humanity will have to continue to work together.
• Priscilla and Ron then discuss how to avoid loneliness through authentic connections with others.

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In order to learn more about Priscilla, visit her website: priscillaschelp.com

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Join us to hear how understanding the idea of “self-talk” — and what you can do about it — could change your relationships and life for the better.

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Visit www.macklinconnection.com

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